“How simple it is to see that we can only be happy now, and there will never be a time when it is not now” – Gerald Jampolsky

Every day is a new Now. Every Now is a new opportunity to something to make a change. To do something new for you and your life. But every Now is also an excellent opportunity to be happy where you are Now. How cool is that!!

So every day is a new Now, but we can also break every day down to shorter Nows. Like part of days. Morning, afternoon, evening, night are all Nows, when you are in them. Imagine how much easier it is to focus on only a few hours at a time.

And while we are breaking our Nows down to shorter ones we might as well break every part into shorter Nows too. How about an hour. Every hour is a Now. How easy would it be to have your focus on being happy for one hour at a time? Wouldn’t it be incredibly nice to feel happy about your life and yourself for one hour at a time. It doesn’t sound to hard, does it?!

The good news is that if it does sound hard you can break the hour down to shorter Nows too, into half hour Nows, 15 minute Nows, 5 minute Nows or even second Nows.

The important thing is that you realise and understand that every moment, of every day, is new Now. And with every new Now you have the choice of how to feel about it. It is all up to you. And you choose it Right NOW, and Now, and Now.

Choose to have a smile on your face at all times. In every Now. Just smile. Now.

Whatever you do Now, choose to have complete focus on that particular thing. Now. Whatever that particular thing is, make sure you smile while you do it. Now. Make sure you enjoy it, and are happy. Now.

Because once a Now has passed, it is the Past. And you can never get that exact Now back. You can never return to the Past, and change how you felt when you where in that Now.

So do yourself a favour and make sure you are happy and focused on and in your Now. Right Now!

"Courage is rightly esteemed the first of human qualities… because it is the quality which guarantees all others." – Winston Churchill

Do you have courage to make use of your qualities?

Courage, to me, is to do something even though you are scared of doing it, or if you don’t know where it is heading. To take that step, or maybe even a big leap, into the unknown is courage. Without courage that first step would never be taken, ever or by anyone. Without courage no other qualities count.

I’m experiencing this at the moment. I had a meeting yesterday that might lead to a job doing a lot of the things I dream about doing. I have never done any of those things before, professionally, but if I get the job offer I will most certainly jump on the opportunity and I will do my absolute best to do a fantastic job. And it takes a lot of courage, will and love to take such a leap in a career, and I’m really scared.

Those of you that know me, and those of you that follow my blog, know that my dream is to make money, and support myself, writing. You also know that I can be very social but also a lone wolf at times. This job would include all of those aspects, as well as proof reading and a bit of editing of what other people have written. Something I’ve been doing my whole life (due to a mother that was proof reading for the local newspaper and a step father that worked as a printer at the same paper when I grew up, always correcting every little error that occurred in everything I wrote or said), and usually do without even thinking of it. Correcting spelling and grammar is natural to me.

Now,  if I wouldn’t take this opportunity, if given to me, if I wouldn’t be courageous enough to do it then it wouldn’t matter how good a writer I am, or how good I am at spelling or if I would be a charming interviewer because I wouldn’t need those qualities.

If the Wright brothers hadn’t had the courage to try their flying invention then they would never have known if it was working and the world would be a completely different place from what it is today. That first courageous step is what makes all the difference, it is what is needed to change the world, your life or you into something better than it is. It is what gives you the opportunities to use your other qualities.

Courage comes from your within, it’s all inside you and has always been there. You just need to start using it. You need to trust yourself that whatever happens you will be great. I don’t need this job, but I would LOVE to get it. If I don’t get  it I will still be great. I will keep writing and I will keep taking the chances that come my way. If I get the job and it doesn’t work out, at least I will know that I was courageous enough to give it a try and I will not have to spend the rest of my life wondering what could have been.

So follow your heart, find your inner courage and trust that whatever you do everything will be great, one way or another.

For more information about Sir Winston Churchill follow this link or this.

Love
Carina

"Success is steady progress toward one’s personal goals" – Jim Rohn

Keep working towards your goals and love every part of your life, and you are successful.

What is success to you? When do you reckon someone is successful, or has a successful life? Do you think of yourself as successful? What are your criteria for success?

Whether you are successful or not is all up to you and how you define it. For me it is about being happy in all areas of life. You are not successful if only one or two areas are a success, although you are on your way. Everybody has to start somewhere.

If I take myself as an example, I believe that I am successful and that I have a successful life. I am constantly growing as a human being and I am working towards my personal goals. I have two jobs that I love, I’ve enrolled to a writer’s course that I want to do and I am learning the language of the country I live in. Career wise I am a very busy woman right now and I love all the things I do. Unfortunately, that is not ideal because I do not have enough spare time or as much time with my boyfriend as I would like to have, but it is only for another month. The reason we don’t have much time together right now is that he works daytime and I work night time. But we always have Sundays when we are both off, so it is workable for the short period of time it lasts. Why am I doing this? Well, it is so I can get the money for my courses and to bring in some extra money for the winter when I will be spending a lot of time writing and studying to get an even better life in the future. The Spanish classes will make it easier for me to find a good day time job and the writer’s course will eventually help me support myself writing. I consider myself successful career wise because I am doing something I love so I can do something else I love even more in the future. I am, in short, happy in my career and that makes me successful in my work life.

I am also happy in my life in total which makes me successful there as well. I have a fantastic man that I love and that loves me, my son is doing well and I have an amazing family and wonderful friends. I love where I live and I love myself, just as I am, but I am always striving to get better and to make my life better. I am working for abundance in all areas of my life and I am happy when doing so. That to me is success.

So, are you successful in all areas of your life? What do want to change, and what do you need to do to change it?

Read more about Jim Rohn here.

Love
Carina

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